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To the newly diagnosed, First, let me say that I wish we were meeting under different circumstances. You’ve just been told you have paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH), and I know how heavy those words feel. This is a club you never signed up for, but here you are —…

It’s been almost four months since I opened up in a column about the emotional roller coaster of living with paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH), and truthfully, that ride hasn’t stopped. But I’ve grown. I’ve learned to lean into the twists and turns instead of bracing against them. The…

When you have a rare disease like paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH), it affects every part of your life, including romantic relationships. In addition to managing symptoms and navigating treatments, one of the most difficult parts for me was figuring out how to help my partner truly understand what…

After two-plus years of writing for PNH News, I’m saying goodbye to my column, “From Fear to Fighter.” I’ve enjoyed sharing my passion for supporting the blood disorder community. By relating my personal story as well as the tips I’ve learned, I hope I’ve helped others feel less…

Before I got sick, college was part of my plan. It wasn’t just a dream; it was a goal I was actively working toward. Then came my diagnosis of paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH), and suddenly everything paused. Life turned into blood tests, infusions, and learning to survive…

Recently, while talking to a fellow paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH) patient who is married, I mentioned that I always wonder how I’ll find a partner who understands my illness. She said that the right person will be a part of your life, no matter what. Her response brought me…

Living with paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH) has taught me that treatment isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s a journey, not a destination. When I was diagnosed in May 2017, I was overwhelmed. There were medical terms flying over my head, treatment options that sounded complicated, and an avalanche of fear…

When you’re diagnosed with a chronic illness, no one tells you how it will affect other members of the family, particularly siblings. I grew up in a close-knit family, and my mom and dad raised three strong, morally driven women who are resilient enough to face life’s challenges. But that…

Travel has always fed my soul. There’s something magical about exploring a new city, tasting different foods, or just watching the sunrise from someplace unfamiliar. But since I was diagnosed with paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH) in 2017, traveling has taken on a whole new meaning — it’s no longer…

Living with paroxysmal nocturnal hemoglobinuria (PNH) has taught me many things — but one lesson I didn’t expect to learn was how complicated it can feel to ask for a medical second opinion. Let’s be real: There’s a stigma around it. Whether we say it…